asexualityresources is a terrible blog, misuses ace bloggers posts, and then when said bloggers ask them to change/take it off, they act condescending and rude, don’t take responsibility, and then sic their followers on them so they can harass them.
just a warning in case anyone here is following them!
unsurprisingly they’re also a proponent of “ASEXUALS CAN HAVE SEX TOO!!!1!”-type visibility, so basically terrible all around
I was on a 101 panel with this person and she said something about how she thought asexual relationships were ~purer~ because they don’t include sex and I had to step in and be like “um that’s not, the point, though, like, let’s not feed *directly* into the stereotypes that this identity is about sex-shaming other people”
and then at the ace conference she gave a presentation on visibility efforts and spent like two minutes on a slide about “dressing professionally” and “representing the community well”
i would add commentary but i’m just gonna be over here barfing